Omolara Rafiu

7 Ways to Identity an Emotionally Intelligent Person

As a modern man or woman, it is important for one to possess emotional intelligence as this will help you navigate through life easily in a world where academic brilliance is not the only criteria needed for success. Are you emotionally intelligent? Do you have highly intelligent people around you? How do you Identify them? Not to worry, we have put together 7 traits of highly intelligent people.

Emotional Intelligence is the ability of an individual to understand, use, manage and handle emotions, whether theirs or that of others.

What is Emotional Intelligence?

Empathy is the ability of an individual to share another person’s feelings. One of the major traits of highly intelligent people is that they are empathic; they can share and understand others' feelings and also know how to respond or react to said feelings.

1.They Are Empathetic

Emotionally intelligent people have a strong understanding of themselves as well as their feelings.They know their strengths and weaknesses and are not ashamed of either. Also they are not ashamed to ask for help when in need.

2. Strong Sense of Self Awareness

Emotionally intelligent people are not only aware of their feelings but they are not afraid to express it - both their feelings and perception. However, what sets them apart from others is that they can do this without being rude or nasty. They express themselves appropriately and assertively.

3. They Are Articulate

Emotionally intelligent people possess a high level of self confidence. Therefore, they are open and objective to feedback and constructive criticism without feeling bad or getting defensive.

4. Open To Constructive Criticism

People who possess emotional intelligence understand the importance of setting boundaries in order to have a well balanced life, therefore, they do not give room for imbalance. This they do by setting boundaries, ASSERTIVELY.

5. They Set Boundaries

Emotionally intelligent people are curious and inquisitive.They are  always eager to learn more about basically anything that interests them and will not put off an opportunity to learn something new.

6. They Are Inquisitive

Most emotionally intelligent people have great social skills. This is not surprising as they have a deep understanding of their own feelings and can also easily understand and respond to other people's feelings appropriately.

7. They Have Great Social Skills